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Nine Tips for Holiday Dating Safety

The holiday season is upon you. This can be a challenging time if you are single. Invitations to parties are flooding your mailbox. Various television channels seem to devote their entire lineup with movies depicting Santa bringing single women their true love. Jewelry stores are airing commercials showing husbands buying wives big shiny objects. Food companies are playing mind games too by showing how much fun it is to bake cookies with children and create enormous feasts for family and friends. Then there are the commercials showing you where to pick out the perfect ornament for your perfect tree. All this can send your head spinning and make you feel a bit down in the dumps if you are single. You may find yourself feeling isolated and alone. Oh and the final blow to your ego; let’s not forget your email is being flooded with discount offers from Match.com, eHarmony, Senior Singles and more.

From experience I have noticed this is the time of year that singles make dumb dating choices. I don’t want you to wake up in March with regrets. November through February are filled with events for couples. No one wants to attend holiday parties alone. No one wants to spend New Year’s Eve, the Super Bowl, or Valentine’s Day alone. This is the time of year when people settle for less than true love so they don’t have to be alone during the holidays. I want you to take an honest look at my tips below and see if you are guilty of committing any of them in the past.

Tips to Remember when Dating During the Holidays

  1. Remember: There is nothing wrong with being single during the holidays. It is better to be single than in a fake relationship.
  2. Watch out for the person that only wants a date during the holidays. Ask about past relationships. It is OK to ask the person what they want – do they just want a date for holiday parties or do they want a relationship.
  3. Don’t lower your dating standards during the holidays: Don’t let holiday party invitations cause you to act desperate and settle for less than you deserve.
  4. Don’t spend excessive amounts of money on your new date for Christmas presents. I recommend you don’t buy each other gifts.
  5. Actively listen: Pay attention to the little thing – like what he or she isn’t saying i.e. excessive drinking, selfish behavior, letting you pays for everything, complaining about child support etc… Don’t settle for the guy or gal that can’t or won’t say “I’m sorry” or that won’t communicate.
  6. Keep your eyes open: Actions speak louder than words. Watch out for the person that blames you for his bad behavior. This is the person that turns the tables and makes it your fault.
  7. It takes two people to make a relationship work. Don’t be the only one working on it. What is your walk away point? It is OK to end a relationship during the holidays.
  8. Don’t compromise your safety. Follow your intuition. Be careful of the person that immediately professes to be in love with you and then asks for money.
  9. Keep busy – whether it is staying home alone reading or writing or being with friends – no pity party allowed.

Now that you have reviewed the list and self reflected on past holiday relationships I want you to promise you will make wise choices when dating during the holidays. Singles can enjoy the holidays. When you implement my Nine Tips for Holiday Dating Safety you will have more money in your bank account, remember your self-worth, and have no regrets in March. Remember, there is nothing wrong with being single during the holidays.

How to Plan a Holiday & Choose Holiday Packages – Top Tips for Stress Free Travel & Ticketing

Traveling might not be complete stress-free, but a little further planning can help make everything go pleasant than you might expect. Vacations are often a time to relax and enjoy new adventures while spending quality time away from hectic life.

There are few tips to follow for a smooth stress-free vacation.

Choose the destination

The very first tip to plan a vacation is to confirm what the destination would be. There might be plenty of places you might want to visit but it is salient to fix one. Check out for the budget that you can afford. You can get in touch with travel agents around you or surf some online travel websites which offers aplenty choice of holiday packages. Once you have shortlisted all the advantages and disadvantages of a place, narrow it down to one and there you have it. The duration of the holiday also plays a main role in deciding the destination.

Research in advance

It is recommended to do as much research as you can about your destination: Look into everything from food, public transportation, visa requirements, Passport, restaurant options, cab and estimates. The more you know before you travel, the better.

Pack Light

Packing different types of clothing or foot wears that you may need won’t necessarily make it any easier to enjoy your vacation as u think. Make it a note to pack light as possible to ensure that you can get around easily and avoid losing certain items that is valuable.

Choose Accommodation

Another Important step on vacation planning is to get the best accommodation. In order to grab the best deals and get fancy discounts, it is always recommended booking beforehand. It is actually quite better to get rooms with a nice view as well. Compare the prices on Different platforms and see which ones are giving the best deals.

Take care of the passport

If you are traveling another country, you will need an updated passport. Make sure that you take care of the same and have a passport that’s to the date. If you don’t even have the passport, make sure you give yourself 2 months time before planning a vacation to get the brand-new passport.

Inquire

People often find that museums and restaurants have up-to-date websites, but every once in a while something falls through the cracks. Call the persons to confirm that there won’t be any closures or that the event you are coming to see is still happening. Book tickets as early as possible.

Avoid thinking about work

Use your precious time to catch up on nice sleep, read books and spend time with friends or family. Let your vacation be a perfect reminder that you have control over your level of relaxation and apply the same at work when you return.

Restrict your communication

Most of the People often feel compelled to stay connected while they’re away from home, so they bring their laptops/Tabs to check e-mail or participate in conference calls. But it is inappropriate to relax if you do this. If you feel that you must stay connected while you’re on holidays limit your communication and establish a designated check-in time.

Let yourself relax

By taking time away from work make you happy, refresh and more productive than before. Sometimes when we are away from day to day activities,We actually find solutions to problems or think of innovative ways for quality performance.

Secure Everything at Home

Nothing ruins your delighted post-vacation vibe like a messy home. Before you leave your Home, find someone to take care of your beloved pets, water your plants, and pick up any mail. Take a quick look at the refrigerator to get rid of any food close to its expiration date. Unplug any electronic devices and empty the trash cans. Make sure your gas is turned off. The whole process won’t take more than 30 minutes.

Get caught up

Take Advantage of the vacation and be proactive in seeking out what you’ve missed during vacation. Make sure you’re filled in on all the suitable information and details of meetings and reports you missed.

And finally, You can also create digital copies of your airline tickets, passport, ID proofs and email them to yourself to avoid losing the information if the documents are lost or stolen.